I Want to Know You More July 2026

I want to know you more Deeply, Intimately, Tenderly, Personally

I want you to know the you I see, and I want you to know her too

I want to know who else has this runaway pinky I inherited from you

I crawl into the untouched side of the bed White sheets still tucked, unmoved. Kicking the hospital corners loose,  

I say, come back to bed; let’s start the day again. Slowly, together, I hold your hand in mine

Here in this morning we find  the geography of us

I want to know more about this aging body, and I embrace yours to meet mine

I want to know if there was an off-ramp I missed to avoid the things I was taught to dislike: the popping veins, sculpted knuckles like worn-out faces, and sagging skin

Soft whiskers catching light

All day I spent tweezing, you say. I’m going to ask God, when I meet him, why all the body hair?

To keep you humble, I whisper, and we both giggle

I want to trace the veins on your hands and discover where they meet mine. I want to connect the dots of your dark and mysterious moles. I want to count them, and you tell me there are too many. I want to run my fingers through your tousled hair, evidence of a good night's sleep


I wanted to find my way back to you and know you in this way so I could know parts of myself: tender, intimate, soft

I wanted to see you and the square inches of your body, the ones you would show me that reflect mine

I wanted to talk to you in this way where your lines connect with mine, and we are surprised and delighted by our unbridled pinkies.

I have wanted to know you away from the gaze of the church you hold close, the walls, the sacraments, and the rules

I want to know you in this sacred place in the quiet language of morning; soft light, soft sheets, soft skin

The softness of you and me.